If a young adult child is struggling, it's easy to blame yourself or even apologize for their bad choices. John and Danny discuss why some forms of apology are not helpful, plus, Jim Daly talked with Allison Bottke about when it's good for a parent to apologize to an adult son or daughter.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/parentingpodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive the book "Setting Boundaries with Your Adult Children" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofp-podcast-2023-03-21?refcd=1627801Get more episode resources: http://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-parenting-podcast/good-and-bad-ways-to-apologize-to-a-struggling-adult-child/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/establishing-healthy-boundaries-with-adult-children-digital-download/?refcd=1627801If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Good and Bad Ways to Apologize to a Struggling Adult Child

What does it look like to trust God when your child is struggling? John and Danny share about the difference counseling can make for a hurting parent, and Jim Daly speaks with Allison Bottke on how she's learned to trust God with her adult son. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/parentingpodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive the book "Setting Boundaries with Your Adult Children" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofp-podcast-2023-03-21?refcd=1627801Get more episode resources: http://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-parenting-podcast/trusting-god-and-your-instincts/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/establishing-healthy-boundaries-with-adult-children-digital-download/?refcd=1627801If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Trusting God and Your Instincts

How can you motivate your child to do something when he or she doesn't want to? John and Danny discuss that topic, and Jim Daly is joined by Kay Wyma to share about why teaching your kids to take responsibility for assignments is a good thing.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/parentingpodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive the book "Cleaning House" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofp-podcast-2023-03-14?refcd=1624801Get more episode resources: http://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-parenting-podcast/when-your-kid-doesnt-want-to-do-something/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/practical-advice-for-raising-responsible-children-digital-product/?refcd=1624801If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

When Your Kid Doesn't Want to Do Something

Letting your kids do chores is a wonderful thing to help them grow. John asks Danny what chores he taught his kids, and ways you can encourage a child to get chores done, based on his or her personality. Featuring Kay Wyma.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/parentingpodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive the book "Cleaning House" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofp-podcast-2023-03-14?refcd=1624801Get more episode resources: http://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-parenting-podcast/letting-your-kids-do-chores/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/practical-advice-for-raising-responsible-children-digital-product/?refcd=1624801If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Letting Your Kids Do Chores

How your respond to a child's misbehavior can make them feel loved or discouraged. But what do you do when time has past, and you wonder if you haven't done the best job of making them feel loved? John and Danny provide some hope to parents who struggled to make your child feel loved as he or she was growing up. Featuring Dr. Gary Chapman and Jean Daly.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/parentingpodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive the book "The 5 Love Languages of Children" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofp-podcast-2023-03-07?refcd=1624701Get more episode resources: http://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-parenting-podcast/when-you-havent-spoken-a-childs-love-language/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.https://store.focusonthefamily.com/how-to-speak-your-child-s-love-language-digital-download/?refcd=1624701If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

When You Haven't Spoken a Child's Love Language

Parents who want what's best for your children will use discipline when it's necessary. But how do respond when you get very mad at your child's behavior? John and Danny share how to keep yourself calm, even if you're upset at your child. Featuring Dr. Gary Chapman and Jean Daly. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/parentingpodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive the book "The 5 Love Languages of Children" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofp-podcast-2023-03-07?refcd=1624701Get more episode resources: http://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-parenting-podcast/balancing-love-and-discipline/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.https://store.focusonthefamily.com/how-to-speak-your-child-s-love-language-digital-download/?refcd=1624701If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Balancing Love and Discipline

It's not easy to handle when your kid faces rejection. John and Danny offer some helpful ideas for how to respond when your child gets rejected by his or her peers. Featuring Lisa-Jo Baker and Jean Daly.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/parentingpodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive the book "The Middle Matters" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofp-podcast-2023-02-28?refcd=1617902Get more episode resources: http://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-parenting-podcast/when-your-kids-get-rejected-for-not-fitting-in/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/thriving-as-a-wife-and-mom-in-the-middle-years-digital-download/?refcd=1617902If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

When Your Kid Gets Rejected for Not Fitting In

As your kids get older, your approach to parenting them will change significantly. John and Danny provide some encouragement for moms who are making big transitions as your children grow up. Featuring Lisa-Jo Baker and Jean Daly. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/parentingpodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive the book "The Middle Matters" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofp-podcast-2023-02-28?refcd=1617902Get more episode resources: http://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-parenting-podcast/encouragement-for-middle-age-moms/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/thriving-as-a-wife-and-mom-in-the-middle-years-digital-download/?refcd=1617902If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Encouragement for Middle-Age Moms

Healthy boundaries with an adult child are essential in order for your relationship to function well. John and Danny offer hope to parents who struggle with people-pleasing tendencies, and share why boundaries are a blessing. Featuring Allison Bottke.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/parentingpodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive the book "Setting Boundaries with Your Adult Children" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofp-podcast-2023-02-21?refcd=1613802Get more episode resources: http://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-parenting-podcast/when-its-time-to-implement-a-boundary/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/establishing-healthy-boundaries-with-adult-children-digital-download/?refcd=1613802If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

When It's Time to Implement a Boundary

If your adult child is struggling, one of the greatest blessings is having a supportive friend to walk with you. John and Danny share about the value of friends, plus healthy ways to talk about the pain you're experiencing. Featuring Allison Bottke.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/parentingpodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive the book "Setting Boundaries with Your Adult Children" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofp-podcast-2023-02-21?refcd=1613802Get more episode resources: http://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-parenting-podcast/supportive-friends-for-when-a-child-is-struggling/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/establishing-healthy-boundaries-with-adult-children-digital-download/?refcd=1613802If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Supportive Friends for When a Child is Struggling

One of the best things you can teach your kids is the value of hard work.  To help improve your child's work ethic, John and Danny give a few ideas on projects you can teach your son or daughter to do. Featuring Kay Wyma.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/parentingpodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive the book "Cleaning House" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofp-podcast-2023-02-14?refcd=1610805Get more episode resources: http://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-parenting-podcast/instilling-a-great-work-ethic-in-your-children/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/practical-advice-for-raising-responsible-children-digital-product/?refcd=1610805If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Instilling a Great Work Ethic in Your Children

How your kids respond to failure can help them grow as a person. Yet, what do you do when your child is more prone to discouragement? John and Danny share why failure can be a good teacher, and how to encourage a child who feels discouraged. Featuring Kay Wyma.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/parentingpodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive the book "Cleaning House" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofp-podcast-2023-02-14?refcd=1610805Get more episode resources: http://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-parenting-podcast/teaching-kids-to-still-try-even-when-they-fail/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/practical-advice-for-raising-responsible-children-digital-product/?refcd=1610805If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Teaching Kids to Still Try, Even When They Fail

Some children are natural servants, and when you serve them, it makes them feel loved. John and Danny discuss the love language called Acts of Service, and how to encourage a child who isn't motivated to serve others. Featuring Dr. Gary Chapman and Mrs. Jean Daly.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/parentingpodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive the book "The 5 Love Languages of Children" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofp-podcast-2023-02-07?refcd=1610002Get more episode resources: http://http://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-parenting-podcast/acts-of-service-for-your-child/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/how-to-speak-your-child-s-love-language-digital-download/?refcd=1511201If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Acts of Service for Your Child

Understanding what makes your child feel loved is a terrific key to connecting with him or her. For some kids, it's receiving gifts. John and Danny share how some of the best gifts don't cost a lot of money. Featuring Dr. Gary Chapman and Mrs. Jean Daly.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/parentingpodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive the book "The 5 Love Languages of Children" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofp-podcast-2023-02-07?refcd=1610002Get more episode resources: http://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-parenting-podcast/making-your-child-feel-loved-part-2/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/how-to-speak-your-child-s-love-language-digital-download/?refcd=1511201If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Gifts and Quality Time

Sometimes, your kids' fears might be a reflection on something you're struggling with. John and Danny offer hope to parents who are struggling with fear, and how to bring your worries to God. Featuring Dr. Josh and Christi Straub.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/parentingpodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get Josh and Christi Straub's children's book "What Am I Feeling?" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofp-podcast-2023-01-31?refcd=1604601Get more episode resources: http://http://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-parenting-podcast/when-you-have-fears-as-a-parent/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/helping-kids-navigate-worry-in-healthy-ways-digital-download/?refcd=1604601If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

When You Have Fears as a Parent

Empathy is one of the best gifts you can give your child when he or she shares a fear with you. John and Danny talk about common fears of little kids, and the types young girls typically have to work through. Featuring Dr. Josh and Christi Straub.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/parentingpodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Get Josh and Christi Straub's children's book "What Am I Feeling?" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofp-podcast-2023-01-31?refcd=1604601Get more episode resources: http://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-parenting-podcast/are-you-holding-on-to-a-worry-bird/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/helping-kids-navigate-worry-in-healthy-ways-digital-download/?refcd=1604601If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Are You Holding on to a Worry Bird?

How do you trust God when a child has gone completely off the rails? Danny and John discuss drawing healthy boundaries with a young adult child, and when it's good to tell your son or daughter, "no." Featuring Allison Bottke.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/parentingpodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive the book "Setting Boundaries with Your Adult Children" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofp-podcast-2023-01-24?refcd=1602102Get more episode resources: http://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-parenting-podcast/stop-the-bad-stuff/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/establishing-healthy-boundaries-with-adult-children-digital-download/?refcd=1602102If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Stop the Bad Stuff

One of the worst things a parent could face is to learn a child is struggling with a serious addiction. John and Danny provide some helpful responses for if your child is struggling with substance abuse or another type of addiction. Featuring Allison Bottke.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/parentingpodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive the book "Setting Boundaries with Your Adult Children" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofp-podcast-2023-01-24?refcd=1602102Get more episode resources: http://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-parenting-podcast/s-a-n-i-t-y-for-struggling-parents/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/establishing-healthy-boundaries-with-adult-children-digital-download/?refcd=1602102If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

S.A.N.I.T.Y. for Struggling Parents

Letting your child learn from his or her mistakes is one of the best gifts you can give as a parent. Spoiling them won't be good for their long-term maturity. John and Danny offer hope to parents who struggled with spoiling their kids as they were growing up. Featuring Kay Wyma.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/parentingpodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive the book "Cleaning House" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofp-podcast-2023-01-19?refcd=1600904Get more episode resources: http://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-parenting-podcast/the-dangers-of-an-entitlement-mentality/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/practical-advice-for-raising-responsible-children-digital-product/?refcd=1600904If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

The Dangers of an Entitlement Mentality

Vacations and special trips can be some of the best ways to make memories with your kids. John and Danny recount fun times they've had with their children, and share why it's good to prioritize those times together. Featuring Julie Lavender.Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/parentingpodcast, or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.Receive the book "365 Ways to Love Your Child: Turning Little Moments into Lasting Memories" for your donation of any amount: https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofp-podcast-2023-01-19?refcd=1600904Get more episode resources: http://www.focusonthefamily.com/episodes/focus-on-parenting-podcast/enjoying-travel-with-your-kids/#featured-resource-ctaListen Anytime: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/practical-advice-for-raising-responsible-children-digital-product/?refcd=1600904If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

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