This week we sat down with Skitty to discuss pregnancy fetish and sadism!  SUPPORT THE SHOW (PayPal, Cashapp, Venmo, Patreon) Check out our sponsor for this week, Terrible Toyshop. You can find  The Original Snapper here! Find us on Twitter and Instagram: @ocpkink More by PODCAST JUKEBOX: Queers Next Door | Being There Will Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian Podcast Drinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST Tags: Kink, BDSM, Fetish, Fantasy, Sex, Education, Positive, DIY, Punk, Nerds, Pregnancy, Sadism

371 - Only in a French Way

This week we sat down with Hilly to discuss ageplay, spanking, and erotica. Find Hilly’s Website and links here! SUPPORT THE SHOW (PayPal, Cashapp, Venmo, Patreon) Check out our sponsor for this week, Terrible Toyshop. You can find  the Elephant Balls here! Find us on Twitter and Instagram: @ocpkink More by PODCAST JUKEBOX: Queers Next Door | Being There Will Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian Podcast Drinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST Tags: Kink, BDSM, Fetish, Fantasy, Sex, Education, Positive, DIY, Punk, Nerds, ageplay, spanking, erotica

370 - Bull Doohickey

This week we sat down with Stormy aka Hellfire, to discuss the Leather community in Texas, and their gender exploration journey. Find Stormy on FetLife. SUPPORT THE SHOW (PayPal, Cashapp, Venmo, Patreon) Check out our sponsor for this week, Terrible Toyshop. You can find  The Rigger’s Delight Humbler here!  Find us on Twitter and Instagram: @ocpkink More by PODCAST JUKEBOX: Queers Next Door | Being There Will Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian Podcast Drinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST Tags: Kink, BDSM, Fetish, Fantasy, Sex, Education, Positive, DIY, Punk, Nerds, gender, leather

369 - Grandma Cookies: a conversation about Leather and gender

This week we sat down with Mistress Jasmine Corvina to discuss chastity, FLR, and even squish in a little food/foot fetish talk. Find more about Mistress Jasmine Corvina. SUPPORT THE SHOW (PayPal, Cashapp, Venmo, Patreon) Check out our sponsor for this week, Terrible Toyshop. You can find  The Snapper 2.0 here!  Find us on Twitter and Instagram: @ocpkink More by PODCAST JUKEBOX: Queers Next Door | Being There Will Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian Podcast Drinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST Tags: Kink, BDSM, Fetish, Fantasy, Sex, Education, Positive, DIY, Punk, Nerds, Chastity, FLR, Food, Foot, Squish

368 - Yodeling Denial: a conversation about FLR and Chastity

This week we talked to Pup Boogie about ABDL and Pet Play, and the stigmas (of past and present) that come with each. We also discuss title holding and the importance of serving/representation in the community to allow a space for everyone. Find Boogie on FetLife SUPPORT THE SHOW (PayPal, Cashapp, Venmo, Patreon) Check out our sponsor for this week, Terrible Toyshop. You can find the  Breast Traps here! Find us on Twitter and Instagram: @ocpkink More by PODCAST JUKEBOX: Queers Next Door | Being There Will Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian Podcast Drinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST Tags: Kink, BDSM, Fetish, Fantasy, Sex, Education, Positive, DIY, Punk, Nerds, ABDL, Pet, Play

367 - A is for… a conversation about ABDL and Pet Play

This week Dick and max sit down to talk about some life events/changes to the show, and his experience this year at TES FEST. SUPPORT THE SHOW (PayPal, Cashapp, Venmo, Patreon) Check out our sponsor for this week, Terrible Toyshop. You can find the  Pussy Trap here!  Find us on Twitter and Instagram: @ocpkink More by PODCAST JUKEBOX: Queers Next Door | Being There Will Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian Podcast Drinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST

366.5 - max Goes to TES FEST and Updates

This week we sat down with Kaitlin Klarer to discuss her show Watch Girls Watch Porn as well as her time as a dancer and current work as a sex coach! All Kaitlin’s links: https://linktr.ee/mysexcoach SUPPORT THE SHOW (PayPal, Cashapp, Venmo, Patreon) Dick’s linksGwen’s linksBuy our porn on ManyVidsRead our blog Check out our sponsor for this week, Terrible Toyshop. You can find the  Nipple Traps here! You can also check out the  Nipple Clamp Showdown, a guide comparing all of the nipple clamps they offer. Find us on Twitter and Instagram: @ocpkink More by PODCAST JUKEBOX: Queers Next Door | Being There Will Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian Podcast Drinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST Tags: Kink, BDSM, Fetish, Fantasy, Sex, Education, Positive, DIY, Punk, Nerds, Queer, Porn

366 - The History of Ben & Jerry’s: a conversation about porn positivity and sex coaching

This week we sat down with JimJam to talk about the Dallas leather community and being a 24/7 dominant with depression. We discussed what drew him to the leather community, what leather means beyond shoes/pieces of clothing, and how leather is typically much less intimidating than it might seem. Finally, we covered how he manages a 24/7 lifestyle as a dominant with depression, and how he makes the role work for him in times of low mental health.  SUPPORT THE SHOW (PayPal, Cashapp, Venmo, Patreon) Find JimJam on FetLifeEmail: jimjamofalltrades@gmail.com Dick’s linksGwen’s linksBuy our porn on ManyVidsRead our blog Check out our sponsors for this week, Lucky Kitten Collars and Terrible Toyshop. You can find the  Devil’s Lotus Clit Clamp here!  Keep us on the air by donating a buck or two to our Patreon! You can listen to an ad-free version of the show a week early, and you’ll have access to our Discord server. We post a lot of fun bonus content, including monthly photosets, silly and/or kinky videos, and movie reviews. If you'd rather make a one time donation, you can do so at PayPal.me/OCPLLC. Find us on Twitter and Instagram: @ocpkink More by PODCAST JUKEBOX: Queers Next Door | Being There Will Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian Podcast Drinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST Tags: Kink, BDSM, Fetish, Fantasy, Sex, Education, Positive, DIY, Punk, Nerds, leather, cigar, social, community, family, bootblacking, outcast, depression, queer, dominant  

365 - The Quicker Picker Upper: a conversation about leather, dominance, and depression

Struggling with how to celebrate Pride Month when many “celebrations” feel rife with corporate lip service, over-sanitization, and police? After a brief intro from Dick and Gwen, enjoy this bonus conversation in which Gwen, Coco Paige, friend of the show Rhapsody in Blue, and upcoming guest Rosie grapple with remembering queer and trans history, censorship/sanitization, and finding queer joy in a time where our people’s lives are in danger.  Listen to more of our recent conversations with queer, kinky POC:  358 with Lord Allen326 with Molly Pocket320 and 321 with Sal319 with Luna Matatas SUPPORT THE SHOW (PayPal, Cashapp, Venmo, Patreon) Read our blog Follow and subscribe to Gwen's new Fansly! Multiple tiers available. Check out our sponsor for this week, Terrible Toyshop. You can find the  Rigger’s Delight Nipple Stretcher here! Keep us on the air by donating a buck or two to our Patreon! You can listen to an ad-free version of the show a week early, and you’ll have access to our Discord server. We post a lot of fun bonus content, including monthly photosets, silly and/or kinky videos, and movie reviews. If you'd rather make a one time donation, you can do so at PayPal.me/OCPLLC. Find us on Twitter and Instagram: @ocpkink More by PODCAST JUKEBOX: Queers Next Door | Being There Will Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian Podcast Drinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST Tags: Kink, BDSM, Fetish, Fantasy, Sex, Education, Positive, DIY, Punk, Nerds, queer, lgbtq, pride, month, stonewall, transgender, history, politics, sanitization, corporate, rainbow

364.5 - The Molotov Cocktail Line: a conversation about Pride Month

This week we sat down with Auntie Vice, author, host of the Fat Chicks on Top Podcast, and creator of the Love Letters to a Unicorn BDSM blog. We talked about body positivity and disability activism in and out of kink/sexuality, body hair and grooming in D/s, and her journey to becoming a sex educator.  SUPPORT THE SHOW (PayPal, Cashapp, Venmo, Patreon) Find all of Auntie Vice’s projects at https://www.loveletterstoaunicorn.com/ Listen to the Fat Chicks on Top PodcastDick and Gwen’s guest appearances on Fat Chicks on Top Check out Gwen’s current porn Pride sales! $5 OF Sale (Valid June 2023)  20% off our ManyVids store with code: OCP82028 (Valid indefinitely) Dick’s linksGwen’s linksBuy our porn on ManyVidsRead our blog Check out our sponsor for this week, Terrible Toyshop. You can find the  Para-hell-ograms Nipple Clamps here! Keep us on the air by donating a buck or two to our Patreon! You can listen to an ad-free version of the show a week early, and you’ll have access to our Discord server. We post a lot of fun bonus content, including monthly photosets, silly and/or kinky videos, and movie reviews. If you'd rather make a one time donation, you can do so at PayPal.me/OCPLLC. Find us on Twitter and Instagram: @ocpkink More by PODCAST JUKEBOX: Queers Next Door | Being There Will Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian Podcast Drinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST Tags: Kink, BDSM, Fetish, Fantasy, Sex, Education, Positive, DIY, Punk, Nerds, body, positivity, fat, activism, disability, educator, politics, blog, author, burlesque, podcaster

364 - Spit-takes and Rubber Chickens: a conversation about disability activism and body positivity

This week we sat down with Lulabelle, a bratty, subby masochist. We talked about how her D/s dynamic has helped with her mental health, such as being able to comfortably express her bratty side during times of lower mental health. We also discussed what it’s like working through therapy as a kinky person, the importance of building safe connections after trauma, and kink after CSA. SUPPORT THE SHOW (PayPal, Cashapp, Venmo, Patreon) Find Lulabelle on FetLife Dick’s linksGwen’s linksBuy our porn on ManyVidsRead our blog Check out our sponsor for this week, Terrible Toyshop. You can find  The Stinger here! Keep us on the air by donating a buck or two to our Patreon! You can listen to an ad-free version of the show a week early, and you’ll have access to our Discord server. We post a lot of fun bonus content, including monthly photosets, silly and/or kinky videos, and movie reviews. If you'd rather make a one time donation, you can do so at PayPal.me/OCPLLC. Find us on Twitter and Instagram: @ocpkink More by PODCAST JUKEBOX: Queers Next Door | Being There Will Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian Podcast Drinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST Tags: Kink, BDSM, Fetish, Fantasy, Sex, Education, Positive, DIY, Punk, Nerds, brat, bratting, submissive, masochist, mental, health, trauma, therapy, CSA, EMDR, punching

363 - Serial Waffler: a conversation about bratting and kink after trauma

This week we sat down with Violet Kitten to talk about her interests in asylum fantasies, monsterfucking, petplay, and bondage. We also discussed how she’s been exploring her toppy side through sex work lately, and how she’s been dabbling in mouth/throat fetish roleplays since getting an endoscope dildo.  SUPPORT THE SHOW (PayPal, Cashapp, Venmo, Patreon) Find Violet’s content! Dick’s linksGwen’s linksBuy our porn on ManyVidsRead our blog Check out our sponsor for this week, Terrible Toyshop. You can find  The Original Snapper here! Keep us on the air by donating a buck or two to our Patreon! You can listen to an ad-free version of the show a week early, and you’ll have access to our Discord server. We post a lot of fun bonus content, including monthly photosets, silly and/or kinky videos, and movie reviews. If you'd rather make a one time donation, you can do so at PayPal.me/OCPLLC. Find us on Twitter and Instagram: @ocpkink More by PODCAST JUKEBOX: Queers Next Door | Being There Will Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian Podcast Drinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST Tags: Kink, BDSM, Fetish, Fantasy, Sex, Education, Positive, DIY, Punk, Nerds, porn, content, creator, monsterfucker, monsterfucking, asylum, straightjacket, bondage, throat, endoscope

362 - Double Fisting Tea & Coffee: a conversation about asylum fantasies and monsterfucking

This week we’re back for part two of our conversation with Billy Lore. We talked more about his porn creations, rebranding himself as a trans man in the public eye, and how that affects his relationship to the queer community.  SUPPORT THE SHOW (PayPal, Cashapp, Venmo, Patreon) Find Billy’s porn and more about his workshops on his website.The porn Billy made in an ambulance! Dick’s linksGwen’s linksBuy our porn on ManyVidsRead our blog Check out our sponsor for this week, Terrible Toyshop. You can find   the Elephant Balls here! Keep us on the air by donating a buck or two to our Patreon! You can listen to an ad-free version of the show a week early, and you’ll have access to our Discord server. We post a lot of fun bonus content, including monthly photosets, silly and/or kinky videos, and movie reviews. If you'd rather make a one time donation, you can do so at PayPal.me/OCPLLC. Find us on Twitter and Instagram: @ocpkink More by PODCAST JUKEBOX: Queers Next Door | Being There Will Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian Podcast Drinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST Tags: Kink, BDSM, Fetish, Fantasy, Sex, Education, Positive, DIY, Punk, Nerds, porn, content, creator, queer, transgender, gender, ftm, sadomasochist, educator, podcaster

361 - Got Yer Nose: a conversation about rebranding, transitioning, and the queer community

This week we sat down with returning guest Billy Lore: sex educator, porn maker, and co-host of The Dildorks! We caught up on what he’s been up to since the last time we talked, got the scoop on his Better Bottoming for Submissives class, and learned what it’s like to shoot porn in an ambulance. We had so much to talk about that it turned into a two-part episode—look forward to that next week. SUPPORT THE SHOW (PayPal, Cashapp, Venmo, Patreon) Find Billy’s porn and more about his workshops on his website. All the videos from  Gwen’s first porn collaboration with Dahlia Lark are out! Use the Lovely Listeners discount on our store for 25% off: OCP82028  Spellbound Studios on ManyVids Dick’s linksGwen’s linksBuy our porn on ManyVidsRead our blog Check out our sponsors for this week, Lucky Kitten Collars and Terrible Toyshop. You can find  The Rigger’s Delight Humbler here!  Keep us on the air by donating a buck or two to our Patreon! You can listen to an ad-free version of the show a week early, and you’ll have access to our Discord server. We post a lot of fun bonus content, including monthly photosets, silly and/or kinky videos, and movie reviews. If you'd rather make a one time donation, you can do so at PayPal.me/OCPLLC. Find us on Twitter and Instagram: @ocpkink More by PODCAST JUKEBOX: Queers Next Door | Being There Will Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian Podcast Drinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST Tags: Kink, BDSM, Fetish, Fantasy, Sex, Education, Positive, DIY, Punk, Nerds, submissive, bottoming, skills, mental, health, transgender, queer, educator, workshop, podcaster, porn, creator  

360 - Yay For Filling Holes: a conversation about better bottoming for submissives

This week we sat down to give some updates about the show, how Off the Cuffs almost went off the air recently, and how to support us going forward. We also talked about a solo scene Gwen did at The Gallery, her first collaboration with another sex worker, and Dick’s new relationship updates!  OUR NEW LINKTREE (PayPal, Cashapp, Venmo, Patreon) All the videos from  Gwen’s first porn collaboration with Dahlia Lark are out! Use the Lovely Listeners discount on our store for 25% off: OCP82028  Spellbound Studios on ManyVids Dick’s linksGwen’s linksBuy our porn on ManyVidsRead our blog Check out our sponsors for this week, Lucky Kitten Collars and Terrible Toyshop. You can find  The Snapper 2.0 here!  Keep us on the air by donating a buck or two to our Patreon! You can listen to an ad-free version of the show a week early, and you’ll have access to our Discord server. We post a lot of fun bonus content, including monthly photosets, silly and/or kinky videos, and movie reviews. If you'd rather make a one time donation, you can do so at PayPal.me/OCPLLC. Find us on Twitter and Instagram: @ocpkink More by PODCAST JUKEBOX: Queers Next Door | Being There Will Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian Podcast Drinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST Tags: Kink, BDSM, Fetish, Fantasy, Sex, Education, Positive, DIY, Punk, Nerds, solo, scene, self, impact, gender, identity, queer, realizations, social, dungeon, update, moving, long, distance

359 - Awooga Eyes: a conversation about our kink lives

This week we sat down with Lord Allen, an indigenous queer nonbinary hellhound leatherboi who co-hosts The Kinky Tavern podcast! We talked about their involvement in the leather community, neurodivergence in kink, ways they advocate for themself at events, and the class they teach called How to Talk to Your Autistic Submissive.   Find Lord Allen on FetlifeCheck out and support The Kinky Tavern! Dick’s linksGwen’s linksBuy our porn on ManyVidsRead our blog Check out our sponsor for this week, Terrible Toyshop. You can find  The Stinger here! Keep us on the air by donating a buck or two to our Patreon! You can listen to an ad-free version of the show a week early, and you’ll have access to our Discord server. We post a lot of fun bonus content, including monthly photosets, silly and/or kinky videos, and movie reviews. If you'd rather make a one time donation, you can do so at PayPal.me/OCPLLC. Find us on Twitter and Instagram: @ocpkink More by PODCAST JUKEBOX: Queers Next Door | Being There Will Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian Podcast Drinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST Tags: Kink, BDSM, Fetish, Fantasy, Sex, Education, Positive, DIY, Punk, Nerds, leather, leatherboi, nonbinary, queer, autism, neurodivergence, neurodivergent, spectrum, education, podcast

358 - What’s That Yellow Hankey? A conversation about neurodivergence and the leather community

This week we sat down with RhapsodyinBlue to talk about The Gallery, the community space she started in Michigan for play parties, classes, and social events. We also talked about the importance of not pouring from an empty cup as a community leader, as well as the class she teaches on relationship de-escalation.  Find Rhapsody on FetlifeInstagram: @rhapsody_in_blue4  Dick’s linksGwen’s linksBuy our porn on ManyVidsRead our blog Check out our sponsors for this week, Lucky Kitten Collars and Terrible Toyshop. You can find the  Breast Traps here! Keep us on the air by donating a buck or two to our Patreon! You can listen to an ad-free version of the show a week early, and you’ll have access to our Discord server. We post a lot of fun bonus content, including monthly photosets, silly and/or kinky videos, and movie reviews. If you'd rather make a one time donation, you can do so at PayPal.me/OCPLLC. Find us on Twitter and Instagram: @ocpkink More by PODCAST JUKEBOX: Queers Next Door | Being There Will Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian Podcast Drinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST Tags: Kink, BDSM, Fetish, Fantasy, Sex, Education, Positive, DIY, Punk, Nerds, dungeon, venue, switch, class, education, vetting, negotiation, leader, breakup, romance, relationships

357 - Lost in the Sauce: a conversation about kink community spaces

This week we sat down with Scruff to talk about inclusion in the pet play community. We talked about BarkAgainst, a campaign she started to support inclusion at kink and pet play events.  Support and learn more about BarkAgainstScruff’s Twitter Dick’s linksGwen’s linksBuy our porn on ManyVidsRead our blog Check out our sponsor for this week, Terrible Toyshop. You can find the  Pussy Trap here!  Keep us on the air by donating a buck or two to our Patreon! You can listen to an ad-free version of the show a week early, and you’ll have access to our Discord server. We post a lot of fun bonus content, including monthly photosets, silly and/or kinky videos, and movie reviews. If you'd rather make a one time donation, you can do so at PayPal.me/OCPLLC. Find us on Twitter and Instagram: @ocpkink More by PODCAST JUKEBOX: Queers Next Door | Being There Will Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian Podcast Drinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST Tags: Kink, BDSM, Fetish, Fantasy, Sex, Education, Positive, DIY, Punk, Nerds, petplay, inclusion, diversity, femme, queer, puppy, kitten, leadership, campaign, advocacy

356 - Glitches and Bitches: a conversation about BarkAgainst and inclusion in the pet play community

This week we sat down with Femme Fatale, representative of Arousr, an adult entertainment/kink education platform that connects people to verified women to explore their kinks, fetishes, and sexuality in a safe/anonymous space. We talk about what the platform is like for sex workers and customers, as well as the efforts Arousr is making to revolutionize and improve online sex work.  Check out ArousrInstagramTwitter TikTok Dick’s linksGwen’s linksBuy our porn on ManyVidsRead our blog Check out our sponsor for this week, Terrible Toyshop. You can find the  Nipple Traps here! You can also check out the  Nipple Clamp Showdown, a guide comparing all of the nipple clamps they offer. Keep us on the air by donating a buck or two to our Patreon! You can listen to an ad-free version of the show a week early, and you’ll have access to our Discord server. We post a lot of fun bonus content, including monthly photosets, silly and/or kinky videos, and movie reviews. If you'd rather make a one time donation, you can do so at PayPal.me/OCPLLC. Find us on Twitter and Instagram: @ocpkink More by PODCAST JUKEBOX: Queers Next Door | Being There Will Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian Podcast Drinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST Tags: Kink, BDSM, Fetish, Fantasy, Sex, Education, Positive, DIY, Punk, Nerds, sw, sexting, phone, platform, onlyfans, payout, algorithm

355 - Dr. Bronner’s Taint Destroyer: a conversation about Arousr

This week we sat down with Mon Loup (Wolfie), submissive, wolfdog, and masochist of Crow, our guest from last week! We got their perspective on their 24/7 D/s relationship, how seeing indie wrestling matches with Crow has made them want to get beaten with fluorescent light tubes, and how their primal identities as Crow and Wolfdog play out in their dynamic. We also talked about the delightful symphony of Dick and Wolfie’s combined screams while getting beaten at the dungeon, their experiences at conventions, and how they’ve grown throughout their time in the community. This one has an adorable surprise at the end that we think you perverts are gonna love. Find Mon Loup on FetLifeVisit Crow’s website Dick’s linksGwen’s linksBuy our porn on ManyVidsRead our blog Check out our sponsor for this week, Terrible Toyshop. You can find the  Devil’s Lotus Clit Clamp here!  Keep us on the air by donating a buck or two to our Patreon! You can listen to an ad-free version of the show a week early, and you’ll have access to our Discord server. We post a lot of fun bonus content, including monthly photosets, silly and/or kinky videos, and movie reviews. If you'd rather make a one time donation, you can do so at PayPal.me/OCPLLC. Find us on Twitter and Instagram: @ocpkink More by PODCAST JUKEBOX: Queers Next Door | Being There Will Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian Podcast Drinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST Tags: Kink, BDSM, Fetish, Fantasy, Sex, Education, Positive, DIY, Punk, Nerds, impact, bottom, submissive, little, primal, wolfdog, corvid, professional, wrestling, protocol

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