Today's episode was filmed in LTM's backyard (nearly). The rain forced us inside at Union Coffee in Dallas for this incredible conversation with Katy Alaniz, enneagram 4, and Justine Guzman, enneagram 1. You'll learn a lot about Katy and Justine in today's episode, and if you want to learn more about Katy visit  www.thewakefulstate.com and if you want to learn more about Justine find her on social media @beautifulstackofpancakes.  Impression Management (a new favorite term of Suzanne's) Enneagram and Therapy Our relationship with social media Boundaries, too many....not enough...what's the deal Do you know what SOGI stands for? What about several other identifiers that are important to the people in our communities, important to us, important to the people we love? Suzanne asks Justine and Katy for some education for all of us who need it.  PLUG TIME It's pretty simple, if you're on a journey right now and need some wisdome and community around: the enneagram, building a more contemplative spiritual life, and/or diving into your Family System and Family Systems Theory with some assistance from the enneagram, then you want to apply for an LTM Cohort in 2023. For more info and to apply visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com/2023cohorts From Intentional To Intuitive is August 4-6. If you are wanting some tools to really bring Enneagram Wisdom into your daily practice in a way that benefits every aspect, relationship, and circumstance in your day to day life, sign up. Show up, ask questions, and meet others either in person in Dallas or the online chat for those joining virtually. Suzanne is going to CRUSH it this weekend. lifeinthetrinityministry.com/store/i2i Todays INTRO:  Russ Hudson at the LTM event, Br5aking The Cycle This Is Where I Leave You (2014)

TEJTW Dallas! with Katy Alaniz (4) and Justine Guzman (1)

We open up the voicemail box and get Suzanne to answer some of the listener's questions in this episode. 7 Questions and all 9 Enneagram numbers get some air time! Fours married to Fives, Sixes married to Eights who both originally thought they were Nines, One's inner critics, and Sevens showing their feelings. Yeah, and there is so much more! PLUG TIME  Applications and information for the 2023 LTM Cohorts From Intentional To Intuitive is coming up! Don't miss the Enneagram Event of the year. Is the Enneagram Journey Toward Wholeness Tour coming your way?!  Visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com for these and more! Today's Intro:  F.R.I.E.N.D.S.- Season 1: EP 13 TEJ Podcast: Others on The Journey Ones F.R.I.E.N.D.S.- Season 1: EP 13   

July Q&A

Everyone, break out your Feelings Wheel for today's episode! The Enneagram Journey Toward Wholeness Tour '22 made its way to Portland to sit down with Alex (8) and Michele (5) Choi. We're going to find out what it means to be "trust challenged", how we can change the time of disconnect in our relationships, and what keeps each enneagram number from accepting help? Don't miss your opportunity to join Suzanne and Joel at an upcoming Journey Toward Wholeness event! Denver, CO - July 15-16 Birmingham, AL - August 19-20 Charlotte, NC - September 9-10 Visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com/tour22 for all of the information and times and to register today! Today's Introduction:  A Christmas Story (1983) Modern Family (Season 7: EP 8) Christine Min (The Enneagram Journey Podcast Aug. 2020)

TEJTW Portland! with Alex (8) and Michele (5) Choi

Who are you?! Who are you not?! Who? Who?! The Enneagram: Know Your Number workshop is where the Journey begins, and NOBODY is better at teaching it than the Enneagram Godmother. Today's podcast is the introduction to her Know Your Number workshop, as well as the teaching on enneagram Eights. This is the podcast that you're going to give to your friends when they say, "Where can I learn about the enneagram? Where should I start?" If you're beginning your Journey, or you're wanting to brush up on the finer points of the Enneagram, we hope you'll join us at The Table, LTM's online subscription service jam packed with knowledge and wisdom. For this season, we are going through Suzanne's Know Your Number videos, and guests who have been through this part of the Journey are sitting down to talk about it and Suzanne's teaching. You can use the promo code WHOAMI to try it out for free! Visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com/thetable and see what there is to offer. Full workshops, great interviews and conversations, monthly discounts and promotions, this Summer Series, and so much more. Over 200 hours of content available, and more added weekly! Visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com/thetable and use the code WHOAMI to check it out for free! If you're wanting to hear the rest of this workshop, you can find it at lifeinthetrinityministry.com/store

Know Your number

We're in the tree, no? In the nest?! Yeah we are! Mother/son duo from the Northstar Community in Richmond, VA, Scott (5) and Teresa (6) McBean join the show in today's episode to talk about their enneagram one spouses, working together, how Northstar came through the last 2 and half years, and some great Q&A with the live audience at Coco + Hazel.  The similarities and differences between 2s and 6s Being a parent and being in ministry Fear for the Collective Boundaries for the Dependent Stance Dynamite Q&A  PLUG TIME! The Enneagram Journey Toward Wholeness Tour marches on with 2 new stops open for registration! Charlotte, NC - Sept. 9-10 San Francisco, CA - Oct. 7-8 And there are still spots available for Denver, CO - July 15-16 Visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com to sign up today!   Today's Introduction:  Old School (2003 film with Will Ferrell) Waiting (2005 film with Ryan Reynolds) TEJ Podcast Parenting Discussion Panel (March 2019)

TEJTW Richmond! with Scott (5) and Teresa Mcbean (6)

Meet Enneagram 6, Mike Alexander! His accomplishments and accolades are looooong, and you can read about them at lionstrategy.group, but for the purpose of this podcast, you just need to know that the man is the real thing, and has been doing his work. Lindsay points out in the show how great it is to hear an enneagram 6 talk with so many years of enneagram experience in hand.  Let's talk psychological safety the enneagram and being a police officer Leadership Styles Vulnerability   "My description of a police officer is: we are normal people, in abnormal circumstances, behaving abnormally, and that becomes normal." - Mike Alexander  PLUG TIME! From Intentional To Intuitive August 4-6 in Dallas, TX or sign up and join virtually from anywhere in the world. Suzanne is going to be teaching how the 3 Centers of Intelligence and Shame, Fear, and Anger work together (or don't!). How we can show up more in healthy space, and maybe even spend some more time in the high side of our Security number. Visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com or suzannestabile.com for more information and to register! Today's Introduction  Opening Scene of Law & Order From Brooklyn 99, Season 5: EP 17 Lindsay O'Connor on TEJ Podcast, Dec. 2021

Mike Alexander (6) - Vulnerability, Psychological Safety, Hidden Hazards

The LTM bus rolls into Austin, TX for the second stop of The Enneagram Journey Toward Wholeness Tour '22! Maybe we'll call this episode an Enneagram podcast collab with The Enneagram Journey and Austin Enneagram, oh yeah, that is the podcast that Leigh and Elizabeth host! This is a loaded episode:  "the hedgehog story" What have they learned hosting Austin Enneagram? Are sexual subtypes the most intense? Differences between 4 and 7 Stance Work aaaaaaaand more  You can find listen to Austin Enneagram wherever you get your podcasts as well as at austinenneagram.com The Tour continues! And with tacos! lifeinthetrinityministry.com/tour22 Dallas, TX - June 3-4 Friday night with Katy Alaniz (4) and Justine Guzman (1) Denver, CO - July 15-16 Friday night with Nadia Bolz-Weber (8) Get more information and your tickets today at lifeinthetrinityministry.com/tour22 ! Today's Introduction:  Sesame Street with Seth Rogan (2011) Give Peace a Chance, The Very Best of John Lennon Marlena Graves, The Enneagram Journey (March 2021)

TEJTW Austin! with Leigh Jackson (9) and Elizabeth Chapin (4)

Oooooh, you're going to hear in Suzanne's voice how excited she gets in today's episode because of the greatness of the guest, Enneagram 4, KJ Ramsey. KJ is a trauma-informed licensed porfessional counselor and author whose work offers space to see every part of our souls and stories as sacred. They'll talk some in this episode about one of her books, This Too Shall Last, and she has a new book coming out soon: The Lord Is My Courage. Find out more about KJ at kjramsey.com TODAY'S PLUG! Dallas and Denver, The Enneagram Journey Toward Wholeness is coming to you! What are people saying about the book and podcast tour so far?  "This weekend wasn't what I was expecting, and it was exactly what I needed."  Join Suzanne as she teaches along side her newest book, The Journey Toward Wholeness, and learn from and with her and her guests on The Enneagram Journey podcast as the show is recorded live. Visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com/tour22 for information and tickets for the stops in June in Dallas and July in Denver. See you there! We hope you listen to the information about From Intentional To Intuitive, Suzanne's biggest event of the year in August at FUMC Dallas or join online. Visit suzannestabile.com or lifeinthetrinityministry.com for more information and registration. This is the event that your Journey has been leading you to. Today's Introduction:  "Dinner Party", The Office Season 4: Episode 13 From The Enneagram Journey with guest Meredith McDaniel, February 2020 Pain from the anime and manga series, Naruto

KJ Ramsey (4) - Ritual, Chronic Pain, This Too Shall Last

Suzanne's favorite way to teach returns on this episode of The Enneagram Journey! We remove a few more messages from the inbox as Suzanne talks about:  Some differences between  EIGHTS and TWOS Vulnerability and Betrayal Anxiety and Fear   Addressing some difficult family circumstances Special contribution from a guest in the Micah Center!  PLUG for the Enneagram Event of the Year!! From Intentional To Intuitive with Suzanne Stabile, August 4-6 in Dallas, TX or join Online! suzannestabile.com/event/i2i  Finding balance between our Enneagram Number, Stress Number and Security Number. Learning to acknowledge and develop healthy responses to Shame, Fear, and Anger.  These challenges are going to be different for each Triad and for each individual Number   Where Shame, Fear, and Anger show up in our attempt to live by the 4 Mantras:  Show Up Pay Attention Tell The Truth Don't Attach to the Results    Early Bird price ends June 1. TODAY'S INTRO  Stan Marsh being vulnerable on South Park (season 9, episode 5) Braden and Andrew Bowles on The Enneagram Journey (September 2020) Trailer for Failure To Launch (Paramount 2006)

April Q&A with Suzanne

The podcast's first stop on The Enneagram Journey Toward Wholeness Tour finds us in Tomball, TX at The Renewal Center with friends of LTM, Aaron Edwards and Kelly Hall. Both Enneagram Fours, Aaron and Kelly are the directors of the Renewal Center and they share in this episode how they make that work, why their ministry benefits from being led by two 4s, and a lot more! You can find out more about The Renewal Center and RE:Bar at therenewalcenter.org PLUG TIME! Big events in Dallas and beyond! Where Will We Go From Here with Suzanne, Joe, and Brian D. McLaren is March 31-April 2 in Dallas or online lifeinthetrinityministry.com/wherewillwego The Enneagram Journey Toward Wholeness podcast and teaching tour continues! Austin is coming up, Richmond is on deck, and Portland is in the hole! lifeinthetrinityministry.com/tour22 Today's Intro: 1. Parks and Recreation, Season 5: Episode 4 2. Emily P. Freeman on The Enneagram Journey Podcast, May 16, 2019 3. This Is Where I Leave You, 2014 Comedy/Drama

TEJTW Houston! with Aaron Edwards (4) and Kelly Hall (4)

Shauna Niequist joins the show! You enneagram fans may remember her from an early episode of The Road Back to You podcast, yup, that is a deep cut. Enneagram 7, and the author of, "I Guess I Haven't Learned That Yet", (what a great title) joins Suzanne to talk about being married to a 4, her new book, journaling and so much more. PLUG TIME Where Will We Go From Here with Rev. Joseph Stabile, Brian D. McLaren, and the Enneagram Godmother is March 31 - April 2. Join online or in person in Dallas! lifeinthetrinityministry.com/wherewillwego The Enneagram Journey Toward Wholeness tour continues! Upcoming stops include Houston, Austin, Denver, Portland, and Dallas! lifeinthetrinityministry.com/tour22 Today's Intro: 1. Sean Connery in Finding Forrester (2000) 2. Ed Helms and Jason Segal in Jeff Who Lives at Home (2011) 3. Jamie Grace on TEJ Podcast, June 2020

Shauna Niequist (7) - Extroverted, Journaling, Bucket Lists

Suzanne says that enneagram sixes are the people that hold our communities together, so it seems fitting that 40 Days on Being a 6 author Tara Beth Leach will put a nice bow on our Daily Reflections Series! Tara Beth Leach is a pastor, preacher of the Word, and a writer. She speaks widely at conferences, retreats, and universities across America on Women in Ministry, Church Leadership, and the call to be a Radiant Witness. She is a pastor at Christ Church of Oak Brook in the western suburbs of Chicago. She previously served as senior pastor of First Church of the Nazarene of Pasadena (“PazNaz”) in Southern California. She is a graduate of Olivet Nazarene University and Northern Theological Seminary. She is the author of Emboldened, Radiant Church, and Forty Days on Being a Six. She has two beautiful and rambunctious sons, and has been married to the love of her life, Jeff, since 2006. PLUG TIME!  Where Will We Go From Here? with Suzanne, Rev. Joseph Stabile, and Brian D. McLaren is coming up March 31 - April 2. Visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com/wherewillwego for information and registration! The Enneagram Journey Toward Wholeness is coming to the Houston, TX area on March 5th! Sign up today at lifeinthetrinityministry.com/tour22  Today's Intro: 1. "So Many Questions" by Side A 2. Will Ferrell as George W. Bush from Full Frontal on TBS, May 2017 3. Jamie Ivey on The Enneagram Journey podcast, Nov. 2018

Tara Beth Leach - 40 Days on Being a 6

The series of Enneagram Daily Reflections authors continues today with Enneagram 8, Sandra Maria Van Opstal! "Fósforito! The explosion happened so quickly there was no stopping it. My mother called me 'tiny match' when she would see this fire exploding from me." This is how Latina pastor, activist, and worship leader, Sandra Maria Van Opstal, describes her experience as an Eight. There came a point in her life when she saw how her fiery explosions were undermining her leadership. A wise spiritual director helped her discover how the Enneagram could reveal more about both her gifts and her weaknesses. Sandra offers insight from her ethnic journey alongside Enneagram wisdom. You can get your copy of 40 Days On Being an 8 at ivpress.com, Amazon.com, or lifeinthetrinityministry.com! PLUUUUG: March 31-April 2, Where Will We Go From Here with Suzanne Stabile, Rev. Joseph Stabile, and Brian D. McLaren! Join in Dallas or online from anywhere in the world! Visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com/wherewillwego for more information and registration. Today's Intro: 1. From Frozen (2013) 2. Christine Min from The Enneagram Journey (August 2020) 3. Rogue from X-Men The Last Stand (2006)

Sandra Maria Van Opstal - 40 Days on Being an 8

Oh Happy Dani, aka Danielle Coke, joins the show today! Earlier in the year we asked you the listeners to tell us some guests you wanted to hear from, and Dani's name came up over and over, and we can see why. Dani, an enneagram 7, shares about how what started as a hobby blossomed into a journey of using art and words to make complex social justice-related issues more digestible and easy to understand for people around the world. Find her online at ohhappydani.com and on instagram @ohhappydani PLUG TIME! Get your LTM New Year's Raffle tickets before the drawing on January 2nd! Win a $100 gift card, books, prayer beads, a private Zoom call with the Enneagram Godmother, and more! lifeinthetrinityministry.com/store/raffle AND! Don't forget to get your tickets for Where Will We Go From Here with Suzanne, Joe, and Brian D. McLaren while the early bird price is still available! Join in Dallas in person, or online from home anywhere in the world March 31 - April 2. lifeinthetrinityministry.com/wherewillwego Today's Introduction:  Scene from Bob's Burgers, Season 3: episode 21 "Boyz 4 Now" Patrice Gopo on The Enneagram Journey podcast October 9th, 2020

Danielle Coke (7) - Setting The Table, What Is Mine To Do, Thinking Process

Suzanne's favorite way to teach! Questions and responses today with the Godmother of the Enneagram. Today's show includes a call to the Reverend to help an aggressive couple who is dealing with leaving their church community, a heavy dose of relationship talk, and how many attempts does it take an enneagram six to leave a message? The Enneagram Journey Toward Wholeness Tour! Richmond, Birmingham, and Houston are filling up quickly and Austin and Portland will be opening up soon! Visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com/tour22 today to lock your seat up and join Suzanne in growing understanding and compassion.   Today's Introduction  Emily P. Freeman from the May 16, 2019 episode of The Enneagram Journey podcast Dinner Scene from Talladega Nights: The Ballad of Ricky Bobby (2006)    Thank you for your support of LTM, Suzanne and Joe, and The Enneagram Journey podcast!

Answering Your Enneagram Questions with Suzanne

What a special episode!! In today's show you'll get to hear from some of Suzanne's grandkids, some of her children, some of their spouses, from Carolyn K. Teel, and it can't be a family episode without the Reverend! Joel took a couple of microphones to the Stabile Family Thanksgiving, and collected some audio. We hope you'll enjoy some of their memories and conversation around the holidays, and then hear from Joe and Suzanne as they discuss what the holidays have meant for them, and how they've evolved over the years. Then! Listen to some of Suzanne's teaching from Holidays and the Enneagram. This recording was taken in December 2019 at the Micah Center and you can find the entire recording on the LTM website. And if you're checking the show notes for where to sign up to join Suzanne for The Enneagram Journey Toward Wholeness teaching and podcast tour you are looking for this link!: lifeinthetrinityministry.com/tour22 Have a wonderful holiday season, and we hope to see you on the road and have the opportunity to continue the Journey with you in 2022!

The Enneagram Holiday Journey

LTM's own Lindsay O'Connor joins the show! Lindsay is an enneagram six, married to a nine, in seminary, parenting 2 beautiful girls, and self proclaimed "wannabe contemplative." Lindsay and Suzanne talk about the role books have played in her life, the similarities and differences between the two of them in the dependent stance, and more! You can find Lindsay on Instagram @lindsayloconnor and catch her at The Micah Center and upcoming LTM events! PLUG TIME! Where Will We Go From Here featuring the Reverend, Suzanne, and the incredible Brian McLaren! March 31 - April 2 in Dallas, TX or join online from anywhere in the world. For more information visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com/wherewillwego And, be sure to check out the upcoming book and podcast tour! The Enneagram Journey Toward Wholeness is coming your direction and we hope you'll join us one weekend! lifeinthetrinityministry.com/tour22 Today's Introduction: 1. A clip on meerkats from Nat Geo Wild, March 4, 2013 2. "What do trees have to talk about" from The Lord of The Rings: Two Towers 3. Enneagram 6, Heather Mustain speaking on The Enneagram Journey podcast, 3-6-9 Panel, May 12, 2020

Lindsay O'Connor (6) - Phobic? Counter phobic?, Making Connections, Being Heard

The Enneagram Daily Reflections series marches on today with enneagram 1, Juanita Rasmus! The show starts today with Juanita getting us all grounded before jumping into some good enneagram teaching and background on wings and stress and security. Then let's hear about how ones take care of themselves, and how we can better take care of them (tip 1: don't touch their food). You can find out more about Juanita by visiting juanitarasmus.com  and you can find your copy of 40 Days on Being a 1 at Amazon.com, ivpress.com or LifeInTheTrinityMinistry.com! PLUG! The holidays are just around the corner and there is no better tool than Holidays and the Enneagram with Suzanne. Over two hours of teaching to help you better take care of yourself and love those around you that you're spending the holidays with. Click here to download today! Today's Introduction: 1. Suzanne talking with Heather Mustain about her relationship with husband and enneagram 1 Chad Mustain. Taken from the introduction in episode 94 of The EnneagramJourney. 2. Joey Tribbiani from the show F.R.I.E.N.D.S. talking about food 3. An excerpt from Others On The Journey, released on August 13, 2020 on The Enneagram Journey Podcast.

Juanita Rasmus - 40 Days on Being a 1

Suzanne traveled to Tennessee in September 2021 for an incredible Enneagram Stances workshop. The questions asked were fantastic, but we didn't have enough time to answer them all, so Joel tucked the cards away in the ol' backpack and broke them out for today's episode of TEJ podcast!  Resentment and the dependent stance. What about the other 2 stances? Orientation to time Fives and feeling How to help the doing repressed....do? Parenting a 1 and more  Plug time! The Journey Toward Wholeness is released and available! Get your copy today, and please take the time to review it on Amazon and Goodreads. You can find it anywhere you get your books, and of course at lifeinthetrinityministry.com Teaching Tour! Suzanne is hitting 10 cities across the country for The Enneagram Journey Toward Wholeness book and podcast tour. Visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com/tour22 for information and registration. The first 3 cities registration is up already: Richmond, VA, Birmingham, AL, and Houston, TX. See you on the road for the journey! Today's introduction:  Suzanne talking on stances from episode 50 of The Enneagram Journey podcast Clip from "Zoolander" the hilarious (according to Joel) 2001 movie with Ben Stiller and Jon Voight Ann Willet (4) from episode 60 of The Enneagram Journey podcast

Your Enneagram Stances Questions

There may not be a workshop or podcast that exists where Suzanne doesn't bring up The Soul of Shame. So it is long overdue that the author, Curt Thompson, enneagram four, joins the show! With a considerable dose of warmth (and surprising measure of humor), Curt weaves together an understanding of interpersonal neurobiology (IPNB) and a Christian view of what it means to be human — to educate and encourage others as they seek to fulfill their intrinsic desire to feel known, valued and connected. He understands that deep, authentic relationships are essential to experiencing a healthier, more purposeful life — but the only way to realize this is to begin telling our stories more truly. After listening to today's episode, be sure and go find your copy of his newest book, The Soul of Desire! Book and Podcast Tour 2022! Join the Enneagram Godmother on the road next year for The Enneagram Journey Toward Wholeness tour. Friday night community and live podcast recording followed by Suzanne teaching on Saturday. Be sure and visit Lifeinthetrinityministry.com for information and to buy your tickets beginning November 2nd. Today's show introduction:  Kelly Harp from Episode 96 of the podcast (December 2020) Peter Griffin on Family Guy, episode "Hot Pocket Dial" Noelle Otts from Episode 76 of the podcast (February 2020)

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