How do couples in the swinging lifestyle change in their rules, expectations, play styles, etc. as they gain experience? We chat with our good friends Nick and Nora as we discuss what couples told us about how they've evolved in their swinging lifestyle journey.Mentioned in this episode: our favorite place for purchasing and advice on sex toys and accessories and more:www.casualtoys.com

Episode 44 Embracing Change in the Swinging Lifestyle

The Swinging Lifestyle can be a tricky thing to maneuver, and, especially when you're first starting, it's easy to have no success in connecting with other likeminded couples or singles and wonder what you're doing wrong. We asked a lot of people in the Lifestyle community for their input on how to fail in the Lifestyle. The result is this podcast; these were the most common responses on how to totally screw it up.

Episode 43 13 Surefire Ways to Fail in the Swinging Lifestyle

We interview @notyouraveragemr and @notyouraveragemrs, a VERY hot couple who have been in the swinging lifestyle for just about a year (though together for a much longer time!)  We talk about their very active first year in the Swinging Lifestyle!

Episode 42 A Couple of Above Average Swingers

We talk about our fun times at Naughty in Nawlins 22! A fun Sybian and Motorbunny Buck Party, Jay and Angie getting on stage at The Cat's Meow on Bourbon St. and giving us all a Karaoke show, and much more. We also have our Toy of the Month review and we will be giving two of these away to two lucky listeners! Mentioned in this episode:www.averageswingers.comwww.casualswinger.comwww.casualtoys,com@swingerdiaries (Twitter)@ready2jam1 (Twitter)@NotYourAverageMrs (Twitter)

Episode 41 Naughty in Nawlins 22

This is a a special pre-Naughty in N'Awlins 2022 episode we recorded during a break in packing! We just wanted to let any listeners who will be there know how to connect with us and share a Titos or your favorite adult beverage. This will be our 7th Naughty in N'Awlins; we had a break in 2020 and 2021.Podcasts mentioned in this episode:Swinger Diaries (no longer online!)casualswinger.comaverageswingers.com

Special Pre Naughty in Nawlins 2022 Episode

A couple with a strong religious background shares their journey, and struggles as the entered the Swinging Lifestyle and how they progressed from feeling guilty at softswap to full gang bangs.Sites mentioned:www.casualtoys.com

Episode 39 From Religiously Inhibited to Gang Bangs

We're back and talking sex toys with the couple from Casual Toys (and the Casual Swinger podcast.) They know more about sex toys than anyone we know, and they tell us things everyone who uses sex toys should know. Oh, and a huge Bad Dragon dildo at 45,000 feet in the sky is not the funniest thing in this podcast!Links you should follow:https://www.casualtoys.com

Episode 38 Space Dildos with Casual Toys

It's Sex Game Night with our good friends Nick and Nora! We intended to publish this several months ago but we had some life interruptions, but better late than never! We always have a great, fun, sexy time with these two. We took The Game of Lifestyle card game that you hear a lot about in LS podcast and created a modified version for the 4 of us. We hope you enjoy listening as much as we enjoyed playing!

Episode 37 Sex Game Night with Nick and Nora

We finally publish our review of the Motorbunny Buck; the short version is that Mrs. Tango likes it. A lot. And we've just scratched the surface of what it can do. The big news is that Mrs. Tango is finally back home again after a LOT of "Life Stiff." So we talk some about Life vs. The Lifestyle when big life events take over your life.

Episode 36 Motorbunny Buck Review

Ever wonder what the swinging lifestyle is like in other countries? With Mrs Tango away on a family emergency, the smart and funny Cate from Wanderlust Swingers (AKA Swinging Down Under) cohosts this episode with Mr. Tango. She and her husband have lived in a wide variety of places in the world and they have traveled the globe, getting a taste of the lifestyle experience in different countries and cultures. We also talk about the LS culture in general, "Red Flags" for LS newbies (and experienced swingers!) and Cate talks about the Podcast-a-Palooza encore coming up in Dallas in November.
Links:
https://podcast-a-palooza.com
https://www.swingingdownunder.com

Episode 35 PCAP and Swinging Around The World

In Part 2 of our series on Sexual Fantasies, we chat with Cory and  Jeni from Episode 30, BDSM Surprise, and Tif and Rachel from Sapphic  Swingers, and chat about their good and bad experiences living out their  sexual fantasies, as well as those that are still on the “to do” list.  Of course, we don’t stay on topic the entire time! Lots of sexy and  funny from these 4!

sapphicswingers.com

Episode 34 Sexual Fantasies Part 2

In this two part episode, we interview 4 fun and sex couples and let them talk about their sexual fantasies: the ones they’ve experienced, the ones still on the “Not yet” list, and which fantasies met or exceeded expectations and which ones were disappointing. In Part 1 we talk with Ams and Kat from the 2Hotwives podcast and Andi and Dave from Double Date Nation.
 

Episode 33 Sexual Fantasies Part 1

We’re back! And for our relaunch we are joined by Jay and Angie of @Averageswinger and Mr and Mrs Ready2Jam. After a year on hiatus due to a major life disruption, we’re happy to join you all again. This one is a bit of a party with mics,

Episode 32 Six or More to Tango

Episode 31 Ladies of Lifestyle LOL Part 1

While at Naughty in N'Awlins several female swinger podcasters got together in a hotel room and had a few drinks and discussed a variety of lifestyle topics, from a female point of view. In this episode, we share part 1 of that discussion. Part 2 will be released in Bonus Episode 78 of The Swinger Diaries on September 9th, and Part 3 will be released in Episode 115 of Average Swingers on September 16th.

Podcasts mentioned in this episode:
Average Swingers (https://www.averageswingers.com)
Swinger Diaries (https://swingerdiaries.podbean.com)
The Euphoria Chronicles (https://theeuphoriachronicles.com)
Torrid Souls (https://www.torridsouls.com)

Royalty Free Music in this episode:
Tango by Asteroidsparik
Don’t You Ever Leave by Mark Cook

Episode 31 Ladies of Lifestyle LOL Part 1

Episode 30 BDSM Surprise

If you're like us, a "normal" (whatever that means) swinger couple, we will bet that everything you know about BDSM is wrong. We thought we understood it just from watching it at events, casually talking with people who enjoyed it, etc. However, in this episode, we interview Cory and Jeni, a wonderful couple, and much to our surprise, the entire podcast was about BDSM. Even more surprising, they introduced Mrs. Tango to it. And most surprising of all, she LOVED it!

Podcasts mentioned in this episode:
We Gotta Thing (at www.wegottathing.com)

Royalty Free Music in this episode:
Tango by Asteroidsparik 
Don't You Ever Leave by Mark Cook
Try it Like This by William Brooks

Episode 30 BDSM Surprise

Mrs. Tango is away so Mr. Tango is going solo with this episode, which could prove dangerous. We talk about Mrs. Tango’s sensual core persona and reveal her sensual alter ego first name! We talk about podcasts and the risk Swinging Lifestyle podcasters...

Episode 29: One or More to Tango

Mrs Tango tells the details of her life in the swinging lifestyle, from her first realization that she is Bi all the way through her full swap group room fun! We’ve heard from our listeners that they want to hear more from Mrs Tango (Mr Tango does tend...

Episode 28: An Intimate Interview with Mrs. Tango Part 2

Episode 27: An Intimate Interview with Mrs Tango Pt1

This is a special episode, with contributions from some of our favorite podcasters! Once you decide to take the plunge and enter the Swinging Lifestyle, how do you actually make your first play connections?

Episode 26: A Beginners Guide to First Steps into the Swinging Lifestyle

Tonight we answer some of the questions we get from our listeners about the Swinging Lifestyle. “Why do we have a hard time connecting with other couples at huge events?” “I’m a woman and a female friend of mine said she’d like to try G/G play for the ...

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